11. Dezember 2004, 04:11

About the first time

Maybe, this subject might be a bit over-estimated, it might be seen a bit too important - I don't know quite exactly.

So, but if it is so important to most people, as it seems, why those people don't be more careful when, at which age, at which occasion and whom they loose their virginity with?

As far as I have learnt, many (and maybe the most) people really don't like to remember their first times, because mostly they have done it with partners, they didn't have loved, and they haven't enjoyed it at all. Maybe, they have done it, because of some group pressure, that they just haven't wanted to be the last of the clique, who has done it, and therefore seen as "loosers". How stupid!

I bet, many people regret later, they haven't waited for the partner, they love for real. I am wondering particularly, why girls don't show more restrain in this regard, because they have to loose even more.

Some other questions: Is a man/boy or woman/girl, who haven't done it so far (and so early), a worse man? And is an orgasm through sexual intercourse so much different than an orgasm through masturbation?